Loving Arabs
Turning the other cheek and loving my enemies.
Recently, while at IHOP in Kansas City I was asked on two occasions about my thoughts on turning the other cheek and loving my enemies. They wanted to know from my perspective what it all looks like in my life and for deeper insight to what it meant to the Jews who lived 2,000 years ago.
My friend who is about to get married asked if I thought if it was ok to buy a gun incase something should happen that he would need to defend his family. His fiancé doesn’t like the idea too much because of the verses that talk about turning the other cheek. Is Yashua referring to not defending your family in Matthew 5:38-48? Or have most us been taught this out of the context of the times Israel was living in during the Roman occupation? Do we sometimes generalize the Scriptures to apply them because we have ignorance to the historical context of which everything was written in? How many times do we believe a teaching or a commentary without searching to see if it is entirely true? How often do I read and know the Scriptures well enough to recognize when half-truths are spoken?
“You have heard that our Fathers were told, ‘Eye for an eye and tooth for tooth.’ But I tell you not to stand up against someone who does you wrong. On the contrary, if someone hits you on the right cheek, let him hit you on the left cheek too! If someone wants to sue you for your shirt, let him have your coat as well! And if a soldier forces you to carry his pack for one mile, carry it for two! When someone asks you for something, give it to him; when someone wants to borrow something from you, lend it to him.”
Matthew 5:38-42
In the time that Yashua was teaching this, Israel had many enemy nations. To give more of a historical context, this was during the Roman occupation in Israel. Not too long before this, the Greeks tried to occupy and bring Hellenism (making Jews into Greeks). To go even further back the Assyrians and Babylonians took Israel and Judah into captivity. So Israel had many enemies by this time. “And if a soldier forces you to carry his pack for one mile,…” is referring to the unjust treatment of the Jews by the Roman soldiers. It is not saying if a soldier of your own country, Israel, asks you carry his pack. Jews help Jews for the most part. Jews didn’t help Romans back then because they were considered unclean pigs occupying the Land that was given to us by God.
What is being taught is coming in a spirit of love towards the ones who hate us, rather than engaging with evil hate. He is not saying do not practice self defense or blocking a punch is bad. For me, when I saw an old Jewish man almost get intentionally run over by two Arab men and I chose not to harbor bitterness in my heart, that is turning the other cheek. My friend and I were able to grab the old man and pull him to safety with the danger of being hit ourselves. When the two men parked their car, that displayed the Palestinian flag, they just laughed at what just happened. I wanted to kick there ass so badly, but I chose to forgive my enemies right in front of them. I would have had no problem taking both of them down, but I want to learn to love my enemies.
I call them my enemies because the Muslims have pronounced the Jewish people and the Christians their enemies. I don’t want them to be my enemy, but they have positioned themselves to be so. By Muslims, I do not mean all Arabs in the world. Islam hates Israel and all the Jews living in other nations. The Muslim nations verbally profess their hatred and intent on destroying the Land and People of Israel.
“You have heard that our Fathers were told, ‘Love your neighbor - and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you! Then you will become children of your Father in Heaven. For he makes his sun shine on good and bad people alike, and he sends rain to the righteous and the unrighteous alike. What reward do you get if you love only those who love you? Why, even tax collectors do that! And if you are friendly only to your friends, are you doing anything out of the ordinary? Even the Goyim (Gentile Nations) do that! Therefore, be perfect, just as your Father in Heaven is perfect.”
Matthew 5:43-48
When the Muslims blow themselves up to kill my people, my cousins, and my friends it makes it so hard to forgive them, let alone love them. In no way am I condoning terrorist attacks! I am merely speaking of my own hearts condition. When they do us harm I have two choices for my heart. The first choice is to hate them back and give back to them what they have given me. The second choice is to choose to forgive so that I have no bitterness in my heart before the God of Israel. This doesn’t mean I can’t do whatever it takes to prevent and protect the people or myself from allowing such atrocities to happen again. I want to be apart of the holy ones who learn to love their enemies, rooted and grounded in love. May they see the love of God in me that can bring them to righteousness.
“…For if you forgive others their offenses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you; but if you do not forgive others their offenses, your heavenly Father will not forgive yours.”
Matthew 6:14 & 15
When someone cuts me off while driving down the freeway or starts rumors about me, I must forgive them. My negative reaction to other people’s choices does not make them my enemy. Bitterness towards an individual or group of people does not qualify them as my enemies. My own bitterness is my responsibility to take care of; and it is not dependant on others ability to apologize or seek restoration. I forgive so that when Daddy God looks at my heart he will find me clean and upright before him.
God heard the boy’s voice, and the angel of God called to Hagar from Heaven and said to her, “What’s wrong with you Hagar? Do not be afraid, because God has heard the voice of the boy in his present situation. Get up, lift the boy up, and hold him tightly in your hand, because I am going to make him a great nation.” Then God opened her eyes, and she saw a well of water. So she went , filled the skin with water and gave the boy water to drink.
Bresheet (Genesis) 21:17-19
I believe wholeheartedly that the God of Israel not only loves Israel but also the Arabs. Many of them are also descendants of Abraham through Ishmael. Hagar the mother of Ishmael was given a promise that her son would be a great nation. That promise has been kept in spite of their current spiritual condition.
On that day there will be an alter to Yahweh in the middle of the land of Egypt, as well as a standing-stone for Yahweh at its border. It will be a sign and witness to Yahweh of Armies in the land of Egypt; so that when they cry out to Yahweh for help because of their oppressors, he will send a savior to defend and rescue them.
Yahweh will make himself known to Egypt; on that day, the Egyptians will know Yahweh. They will worship him with sacrifices and offerings, they will make vows to Yahweh and keep them. Yet Yahweh will strike Egypt, both striking and healing, so they will return to Yahweh. He will listen to their prayers, and he will heal them.
Yeshayahu (Isaiah) 19:19-22
I have been privileged to become friends with a wonderful Egyptian named Amy. She is in love with Yashua and a true friend. It has been great to see Holy Spirit working in both of us. It is through this friendship that I have learned to love the Arabs more than before and see God’s heart for restoration towards them. It has been so healthy for us both, as Jew and Arab, walking in unity. We both have dealt with the deep rooted issues of hurt, bitterness, anger, and hatred towards the others race. Through the God of Shalom, we have experienced genuine reconciliation and love. I am so thankful for Amy. I can see so much hope for a spiritual awakening for the Arab nations to turn to the God of Israel. It is on God’s agenda as we can see biblically. Abba loves my friend Amy and her people. If my Abba loves Amy’s people that much to bring them to Him, then why wouldn’t I love them too. This I know, Amy is not only going to change her nation (Canada) by helping to bring righteous laws and decisions but also in Egypt that will affect the entire Middle East.
I choose love over anything else.